Teen Dating Domestic Violence: What Every New Jersey Teen and Caregiver Should Know

Published on February 8, 2026 at 5:21 PM

Teen dating should be about learning healthy communication, trust, and respect—but for too many young people, relationships involve control, fear, and abuse. Teen Dating Domestic Violence (TDV) is a serious and often hidden issue impacting teens across New Jersey, including middle and high school students.

Teen dating domestic violence includes physical, emotional, verbal, psychological, digital, and sexual abuse within a dating relationship. It can look like:

  • Constant texting or monitoring social media

  • Jealousy disguised as “love”

  • Name-calling, threats, or humiliation

  • Pressuring someone into sexual activity

  • Physical harm or intimidation

Facts About Teen Dating Violence in New Jersey

The statistics are concerning and highlight why education and prevention are critical:

  • Nearly 1 in 3 teens nationwide experiences some form of dating abuse, and New Jersey mirrors these trends.

  • According to New Jersey youth surveys, many high school students report experiencing emotional abuse, including controlling behaviors and verbal harassment.

  • Teen girls are disproportionately affected, though boys also experience dating violence and often underreport it.

  • Digital abuse is rising rapidly, with teens experiencing harassment, threats, and pressure through texting and social media.

Resources for Teens in New Jersey

If you or someone you know needs help:

  • NJ Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-572-SAFE (7233)

  • Love Is Respect (Teen-Focused): 1-866-331-9474 or text LOVEIS to 22522

  • 911 if there is immediate danger

Help is available 24/7, confidential, and free.

Adjust Your Crown, Inc and Street Maintenance, LLC teamed up for a Teen Dating Domestic Violence Round Table Talk. 

Photo features: Newark Police Detectives, AYC Princess Group, Street Maintenance Team, and Mentees

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